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PUA Banter
Posted by GuestPoster in Personal Development
If you are new to the pick up community, you may not have heard of ‘banter lines‘. What they are are witty, flirtatious lines that are used to flirt with a girl. You may be under the impression that things like ‘wit’ and ‘flirtatiousness’ are qualities that may be things that you need to be born with, but I can assure you that they are not. Just like a comedian gets good by practicing delivery, so to can ‘wit’ and ‘flirtatiousness’ be developed by consistent practice.
Traditionally, pick up lines have been considered cheesy crutches that desperate men use to meet women. The fact of the matter is that when it comes to starting a conversation, it doesn’t really matter what you say. What is ten times more important than what is said is what is behind the words. Things like confidence, timing, tonality and body language are much, much more important. If you are going to memorize and reuse lines, banter lines are the things you are going to want to practice.
Once most beginners push past their fears of approaching women, the next sticking point most guys run into is having a hard time finding things to say. As I said before, its not so important what is said, as how things are said. Banter lines can be thrown into a conversation just about anywhere and will immediately change the tone of the interaction. Once a flirtatious element has been introduced into the conversation, just about anything that is said afterwards will take on a slightly different meaning.
If you are looking to get good at witty banter, you need to learn how deliver lines with good timing, good tonality as well as with the right inflection. You are looking for a slightly arrogant and sarcastic tone to what you are saying. In order to learn the right mix, using the same line over and over again is almost a necessity. This will allow you the ability to tinker with the delivery until you find that you are consistently getting the type of reaction you are looking for.
Be aware that a when you begin to deliver some of these lines the way they are meant to be delivered, you may begin to receive sarcastic or seemingly hostile responses. This can be a good thing as the woman is choosing to play back with you. I say this because many guys who get all wrapped up in things like delivery and what they are supposed to be doing in an interaction often forget that communication is a two way street and paying attention to what is going on around you are just as important as the things you are doing to pick up the girl!
If you are interested in more information about how to deliver banter lines, what they are as well as some actual lines to remember, check out this ezine article on banter lines.
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